From Classroom to Spotlight: A Journey from Teaching to Singing

“Moving to America opened doors I never imagined, both in music and in life.”

By Sitki Kazanci


Büşra Kayı Tarhan is a remarkable artist whose journey spans continents, disciplines, and passions. From her early days in Istanbul as a promising fashion designer to becoming a vocal artist celebrated within the Turkish-American community, Büşra’s story is one of resilience, creativity, and a deep connection to her roots.
In this exclusive interview, Büşra shares her path from fashion design to music, her experiences as an immigrant in the United States, and how she has carved out a fulfilling life that balances her artistic pursuits with her dedication to family. Her warmth, humility, and wisdom shine through as she opens up about her inspirations, challenges, and hopes for the future.
Join us as we explore the life and journey of Büşra Kayı Tarhan—a woman who exemplifies the power of passion and perseverance.

Can you tell us about your early beginnings? Your childhood, original birthplace, and family?
I was born in Cihangir, Istanbul, as an only child. However, I spent most of my childhood with my grandmother and grandfather, surrounded by my cousins. This upbringing gave me a sense of familial warmth and community, even in the absence of siblings.

What factors influenced you most in your formative years? Your early and higher education?
My interest in art started in high school at Nişantaşı Anatolian High School, where I studied in the painting department. From there, I transitioned into fashion design, blending creativity with practical skills.
Music entered my life through my father, who introduced me to a variety of records. Additionally, my uncles played the saz, fostering my love for traditional Turkish music. This interest led me to the Müjdat Gezen Conservatory, where I studied Turkish classical music for two years. Although I later pursued fashion design professionally, my passion for music never faded. I also hold a bachelor’s degree in American Culture and Literature.

When did you realize you had a wonderful voice and decide to pursue a musical career?
As a child, people frequently handed me the microphone at weddings and social gatherings. My mother’s encouragement and the applause from audiences made me realize I had a gift. This recognition grew stronger during primary school, when my teacher praised my voice after hearing me sing hymns.
After marriage, my husband encouraged me to explore my talent further. We created a YouTube channel together, which allowed me to connect with a larger audience. Moving to the US offered even more opportunities, and my musical journey truly took off.

How did your career develop?
My career blossomed in the US, where I started performing at small gatherings and events. Sharing my music on social media built a loyal fan base. Friends and family played a crucial role, encouraging me to take my talent seriously. Their support gave me the confidence to pursue music professionally.

Could you share your journey to the US and your initial impressions?
My first visit to America was as a tourist, traveling from New York to Washington and Miami with my two-year-old son. After two years back in Türkiye, we decided to relocate permanently for my son’s education.
While adjusting to a new country was challenging—especially in a metropolitan city like New York—I found stability in Washington, where I built my home and career from scratch.
Could you tell us about your family and your ties to the Turkish-American community?
My immediate family in the US consists of my husband and son, while most of my relatives remain in Türkiye. Despite being far from family, I have found a sense of belonging through the Turkish-American community.
I became a member of the American Turkish Association two years ago, participating in events like the Turkish Festival, Women’s Day, and embassy receptions. These activities allow me to celebrate my heritage while sharing my art.

You also studied fashion design. How do you balance this passion with music?
After studying fashion design for five years, I opened my own shop in Istanbul, collaborating with celebrities. Unfortunately, financial constraints forced me to close the shop.
In the US, I have used my design skills in creative ways, from decorating events to planning birthday parties. Recently, I launched a business to formalize these efforts. Although Washington is not ideal for high-fashion couture, I hope to expand my creative ventures in the future.

What kind of music resonates with you most?
I adore Turkish artists like Ferdi Özbeğen and Sezen Aksu, and international icons such as Tanita Tikaram, Sinéad O’Connor, and Julio Iglesias. Western classical music, which my father often played on Sundays, also holds a special place in my heart.
My mezzo-soprano voice allows me to explore diverse genres, and I am open to experimenting with Western classical and light music in the future.

What made you choose not to pursue a larger-scale professional music career?
The music industry is a demanding and often tumultuous field. As a mother, my priority is raising my son and maintaining a balanced family life. While I value my musical journey, I prefer a modest path that brings me joy and fulfillment without compromising my family’s happiness.

Could you describe your daily routine?
My mornings start at 7:00 am, preparing breakfast for my son before school. After walking our dog, I dedicate time to the gym and social media planning. Afternoons are for errands, while evenings involve YouTube editing or event preparations, which can take weeks. Balancing personal, professional, and social commitments keeps me busy and fulfilled.

What is your favorite quote?
“To be happy, you either have to increase your possibilities or decrease your desires.”

Who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
My grandmother, Yıldız, played an irreplaceable role. She taught me resilience, gratitude, and the beauty of simplicity. Growing up on her farm, surrounded by animals and nature, shaped my perspective and values. Her legacy lives on in everything I do.

Is there something surprising about you that our readers might not know?
I make exceptional bread and Albanian pastries. No matter where I am, I can roll out dough and create dishes like pita or börek. It is a skill I cherish.

What are your recommendations to the Turkish-American community?
Let us support one another, regardless of career or status. Living abroad can be challenging, but fostering mutual respect and collaboration can make our community stronger.
Büşra Kayı Tarhan’s journey from Istanbul to the US is a testament to resilience, creativity, and passion. Whether through her voice, fashion, or community contributions, she continues to inspire those around her while embracing her dual roles as an artist and mother.
We thank Büşra for sharing her incredible story with us. ■

Here is the YouTube channel of Büşra Kayı Tarhan: YouTube